Dear Daughter - Grades

Dear Daughters,

Throughout the years, your teachers have taken great care in detailing out your academic progress using a variety of test scores, charts and age appropriate academic baselines. During parent conference I listen and patiently wait for the question that always comes, 

“Do you have any questions Mrs. Young?”

And I always do...

Do you observe her showing kindness and compassion? Does she treat you and her peers respectfully? Have you noticed that she is inclusive of all types of friends? Is she obedient when asked to do something? Do you feel she is trying her best? Is she helpful in the classroom? Is she honest?

These are the developmental milestones I am most interested in.

Daughters, developing your character and being aligned in your values will mean most in the journey of life. Your grades, quality of relationships, work experiences, etc... they are all a byproduct of who you choose to be and strive to become. Do your best in school, because trying your best is one of your core values, not because your inherent worth is tied up in a score or letter grade. Your parents will always celebrate your efforts, and the lessons you learn, over the final result. 

xo, Mommy

(Pic. Avery + Mommy 2006)